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I know the idea of taking care of a child with unique needs can seem daunting. Many parents won’t ask, knowing this and many wouldn’t agree to it. When someone is available to do babysitting for a child with cancer, even a couple hours is an enormous help. It allows them to decompress, take care of themselves or maybe have dinner together and support one another.
I interviewed Cynthia who babysat Cayden a few times and she shared how she managed to overcome fears and enjoy her time with him. Here is what she said:
What were some of your concerns about babysitting?
“I had concerns that the baby would get sick or be in pain and I couldn’t resolve his issues in a timely manner. Also, I didn’t think that I could comfort him and assure him that he was safe and cared for by me,” Cynthia confessed.
What do you wish you would have known beforehand?
I was given very good information about what Cayden liked to eat, his favorite toy, and his shows and songs were very helpful. I think anyone looking to babysit a child with challenges should spend time with the child prior to babysitting to learn their environment, likes/dislikes and personality,” she stated. “This would allow the child to like their potential caregiver.”
What helped you most while babysitting?
“It is important to know that there shouldn’t be fear involved when caregiving for anyone. The patient will realize this fear and become uncomfortable. One should be prepared, patient and treat everyone like they would want to be treated. Basically with love,” she shared.
What would you say to someone who wants to babysit, but is scared something might go wrong?
“Things may go wrong so having a plan of who to contact and immediate actions to take until professionals are available to help. And pray to God for strength and help!” she added.
We appreciate Cynthia’s willingness to share her story. If you have had an experience taking care of child with cancer, please share it in our community group! We look forward to seeing you!
